Angry wife confronts her hubby and his side chic at a…
A video showing the moment an angry wife busted her husband and his side chic having a good time at a hotel in Benin City on Wednesday, March 4th, has gone viral.
The video showed the wife attacking the side chic. She went as far as tearing the dress the side chic had on, revealing her private part. The intervention of the security officers at the hotel helped to salvage the situation from getting worse.
A video showing President Muhammadu Buhari seeming refusal to offer Senator Oluremi Tinubu a handshake while greeting other dignitaries on the sidelines of the E-Nigeria International Conference, Award and Exhibition in Abuja on Thursday has generated debate on Twitter.
In the video which is about 18 seconds long, Buhari is seen alighting from his official Mercedes Benz at the International Conference Centre, Abuja after which he is welcomed by the Minister of Communications and Digital Economy, Isa Pantami.
The President subsequently shakes hands with the Governor of Nasarawa State, Abdullahi Sule, who is standing next to Mrs. Tinubu, who is the Chairman, Senate Committee on Communications.
Senator Tinubu, who curtsies twice, is, however, not get a handshake from the President and she didn’t extend her hand for one.
Buhari subsequently skips her and goes on to exchange pleasantries and a handshake with Inuwa Abdullahi, the Director-General of the National Information Technology Development Agency.
The President’s action, however, caused a debate on Twitter.
While some said what the President did was not wrong, others said the action was evidence that the President believes that women only belong to the “kitchen and the other room,” a claim he had once made while talking about his wife, Aisha.
Twitter user, @donaldnihio tweeted, “The woman was totally ignored. Eyah! Inside life,” while, @emperorjissy tweeted, “There s no possible way he would have had a handshake with Remi Tinubu there. The minister was obviously blocking her and she was not putting her hands forward.””
But @Aladay7 said, “After watching the video several times, I can conclude that President Buhari did not shake her because she was not one of the people on the welcome team.”
My intimacy pillars are gentleness, consent, trust and total surrender. Try it..
Be very, very, VERY sure of your facts. You obviously have some things you are basing your suspicion on. A hunch is not a fact.
Follow these steps:
Tell her that you have a very serious matter to discuss with her to get her attention.
Prepare for a stormy and heated discussion. Either way, you are going to hack her off and you may also become cross.
Ask her directly if she slept with X. Tell her why you are asking the question and lay out all your evidence.
Depending on her temperament, her answer will be either positive and defiant or negative and deeply, tearfully disappointed in you that you could think this.
Believe her, whatever her answer is.
If her answer was no, apologise, beg for forgiveness and start building up the trust in your relationship. You just shattered it.
If her answer was yes, carefully decide if this is a deal breaker for your relationship or not. Will you continue in an open relationship, will you forgive her and try again, or ask her why she did it and if there is a need that you are not fulfilling for her. Some soul searching for both of you lie ahead.
If you don’t believe her, your relationship is over anyway and you must break up with her – now.
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Follow her. Especially if you know her typical routine, when something changes even the slightest, be there to see why. Its not easy but thats one way.
Hire a private investigator. That’s expensive though.
If she did it once and isnt cheating now, you may never find out.
Sucks you have this problem. Hopefully you are just being paranoid, but if your gut is telling you, listen to it and act on it to know for sure.
been round the block a few times and got burnt on occasion
Ask her if she says yes she did then you have your answer if she says no she didn’t then you have your answer.
Ask the suspected guy, see above.
If it’s something that happened before you and her got together then what does it matter if they have or haven’t.
If it’s something you suspect has happened deceitfuly while you have been together and you don’t believe either of them maybe you should think about your future together, because there are some problems with trust.
Been around the block a few times.
Well, there are two possibilities. Either you already have some reason to believe she’s slept with another guy, in which case what more proof do need? Or you have no reason to think she’s slept with another guy and you’re being being suspicious and controlling, in which case you are being a bad boyfriend, and she’ll be better off without you