Mg husband told me he is a car dealer only to discover he lied to me after our wedding.

My husband lied to me that he's a car dealer

I have been in tears since the first week of my wedding, and totally confused about what to do.

I had a very strict upbringing which prevented me from getting too close to my husband before we got married. I met my husband in my hairdressing salon seven months ago. He was driving pass and saw me outside, and parked his car and came outside. He talked to me briefly and introduced himself. He was a very friendly and jovial guy, and I liked him immediately.

We became friends, and he visited often. He was always coming to my shop every day with different cars. I asked him what he was doing that he could afford so much cars, and he laughed and told me that he was a car dealer.
A car dealer? I was impressed. And it was clear he was doing so well in his business, considering the kind of cars he was always bringing to see me everyday. So when he asked me out, I didn’t hesitate to say yes to him.

I was proud of him. I was always quick to show him off to my friends at my salon.
“Meet my guy, he’s a car dealer.” Those words gave me a deep sense of pride.

I never visited him for once, because I come from a very strict home, and visiting a man you’re not yet married to was against my doctrines.

Just four months into our dating, he proposed to me, and I accepted. That was the point I should have suspected that something was wrong, because immediately he proposed to me he began to complain about his business. He said business was bad, and he could barely afford the wedding.

My business was doing well, and I had some savings. And more so, I wasn’t getting any younger, so I wanted to settle down. Apart from that, business is about high and low moments, so I was hopeful that things would get better for him again soon. And what would I be doing in his life if I could not support him in his low moments?

So I handed my savings to him to assist him with the wedding arrangements. He said that when he sold his cars he was going to return the money back to me, although I was not bothered about him repaying the money.

Two months after the proposal, we had a very beautiful wedding. I was the happiest woman in the world that day, getting married to the most loving man in the world in the presence of my family and friends.

My joys knew no bounds. I couldn’t wait to go home with him and start a family with him.
But you can imagine how my joy was shortlived when I went home with him and discovered that the man I got married to was different from the man he told me he was.
He is not a car dealer, but works in a car-wash.

He doesn’t have a single car, neither is he dealing with cars. He works in a car-washing place for someone. So anytime a customer brought a car for him to wash, after washing the car, he would drive the car around a bit, and that was how he saw me. That explains why he was always coming to my shop every day with different cars.

My husband deceived me into marrying him. I feel ashamed of myself. I have been in tears ever since. I don’t know why he did this to me. How can I tell my family and friends that he is a car-washer, and not a car-dealer as I earlier told them? My younger sister called me a few days ago and said she wanted to come and visit us, but I told her not to come. I lied to her that I wanted to travel, because I didn’t want her to come and find out the truth and take the news home. But how long will I continue to live like this?

Right now I am confused, and I don’t know what to do. And I desperately in need of advice on what to do.

My mum once tried to kill me, bbnaija star mercy eke Tearfully explained in an emotional revelation.

Ex-big brother Housemate Mercy Eke popularly referred to by fans as Lambo Mercy, might look like she has it all now- fame, fortune family as well as her dream relationship with ex-BBnaija co-star and housemate Ike Onyeoma but the truth is things weren’t always so easy for the first female BBnaija winner.

Long before the big brother house, Mercy’s family had financial struggles, her mum was a roadside seller helping to put her through school until she eventually graduated from the university of Abuja and got her lucky start from the big brother house.

On her new reality tv show with her fiance Ike, she’s finally given fans a window into her life including her struggles of the past.

In the first episode that premiered just recently on Dstv channel 151 she told the emotional story of how her mum tried to abort her as a child. Not out of malice or anything of that sort but because her mum being so poor was so afraid she could not take care of another child.

“She would climb a palm tree high up and deliberately jump down while she was pregnant with me” Mercy spoke concerning her mum in an emotional revelation.

Fast forward to the present and the woman who was afraid she couldn’t care for little Mercy is being taken care of by Mercy.

The inspirational story of graceful transition from grass to graze is one that is a pointer to the fact that fortune can smile on anyone at any point in time.

As for Mercy, with countless endorsement deals in her name and many more to come, as well as her finally stable relationship with the man of her dreams Ike, we can definitely say, she’s living a life far from the one of her childhood and her fans couldn’t be more happy for her.

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My wife cheated on me for 10 years.

A man found out his wife had been cheating for past 10 years. He took to Facebook to get things of his chest, and his perspective on the entire ordeal is a must-read for everyone.

“Hi, My name is Joseph. I’ve been lurking for a while, but I’ve finally made an account to post this. I need to get my life off my chest. About me. I’m a 46 year old banker and I have been living my whole life the opposite of how I wanted. All my dreams, my passion, gone. In a steady 9-7 job. 6 days a week. For 26 years. I repeatedly chose the safe path for everything, which eventually changed who I was.

Today I found out my wife has been cheating on me for the past 10 years. My son feels nothing for me. I realized I missed my father’s funeral FOR NOTHING. I had been dating my wife for four years by then. Young love. She loved my spontaneity, my energy, my ability to make people laugh and feel loved.

Now, we get to where it all went wrong. My biggest regrets. I was 20. I was the only child. I needed to be stable. I needed to take that graduate job, which would dictate my whole life. To devote my entire life in a 9-7 job. What was I thinking? How could I live, when the job was my life? After coming home, I would eat dinner, prepare my work for the following day, and sleep at 10 pm, to wake up at 6 am the following day. God, I can’t remember the last time I’ve made love to my wife.

Yesterday, my wife admitted to cheating on me for the last 10 years. 10 years. That seems like a long time, but I can’t comprehend it. It doesn’t even hurt. She says it’s because I’ve changed. I’m not the person I was. What have I been doing in the last 10 years? Outside of work, I really can’t say anything. Not being a proper husband. Not being ME. Who am I? What happened to me? I didn’t even ask for a divorce, or yell at her, or cry. I felt NOTHING.

Now I can feel a tear as I write this. But not because my wife has been cheating on me, but because I am now realizing I have been dying inside. What happened to that fun-loving, risk-taking, energetic person that was me, hungering to change the world? I remember being asked on a date by the most popular girl in the school, but declining her for my now-wife. God, I was really popular with the girls in high school. In university too. But I stayed loyal. I didn’t explore.

Now i regret doing nothing with my energy when I had it. My passions. My youth. I regret letting my job take over my life. I regret being an awful husband, a money-making machine, not being emotionally there for my son. Being a damn emotionless wallet.

If you’re reading this, and you have a whole life ahead of you, please. Don’t procrastinate. Don’t leave your dreams for later. Please, do something with your life while you are young. DO NOT settle down at 20. DO NOT forget your friends, your family. Yourself. Do NOT waste your life.

My husband R@pes me,wish I never got married-lady cries out.

My husband r@pes me, I wish I never got married

My marriage is a year and my husband doesn’t give me breathing space , I went to watch a movie with a friend from university and I came home late , he was waiting for me outside , and he started hitting me and he r@ped me, he was shouting at me collected my car keys , I was crying so bad.

The next morning he told me I should serve him his food n@ked and I should stand and wait for him to finish it I just sighed and walked away , he pursued me into the room and he told me I should not get him angry.

I was standing there and was crying , he now locked me inside and went to work , he came back and started begging me that he’s sorry.

It’s not the first time , He will come back he doesn’t even care he will just come and tell me go and lie down , and if I don’t agree he will take me there , he’s the only person I’ve slept with.

I wish I even had s3x with him before we got married I would have known he’s like that , I was there forming v!rgin, I wish I never got married. I can’t stand him . Snoring in my ears.

Ladies if you are the one can you still continue the relationship?

My Attackers must be Arrested-goodluck Jonathan.

Nigeria’s former President, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan has called for the arrest and prosecution of gunmen who attacked his home in Otuoke, Bayelsa, South South Nigeria.

Jonathan also thanked Nigerians for the continuing show of solidarity and sympathy following the Christmas eve attack by unknown gunmen in his country home in Otuoke, Bayelsa State.

The former President who stated this while conducting sympathisers round the scene of the attack on Friday also commended the Nigerian military for their gallantry in repelling the attack by engaging the assailants in a fierce gun duel that unfortunately claimed the life of a soldier.

Jonathan noted that since the assailants attacked his marine security post on December 24, 2019 many Nigerians of different social status, including President Muhammadu Buhari, state Governors and political party leaders as well as foreigners had either visited him or called to express their heartfelt sympathy over the unfortunate attack in his house.

The former President also reiterated his call on the concerned security authorities to expose and bring the criminals to book as a means of ensuring that such dare-devil criminality did not happen again in his community or any other place in the country.

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