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My first slap from hubby felt like a Dream-mercy Aigbe open up on her failed marriage

Nollywood actress and entrepreneur, Mercy Aigbe, has opened up on her failed marriage with estranged husband, Lanre Gentry. The single mom of two left the hotel owner on grounds of domestic violence.

In a new episode sighted on her Youtube channel, she recounted the terrible experience saying;

The first time the slap came, it felt like I was dreaming. I wasn’t expecting it and I was shocked beyond words. I didn’t know it was going to happen but it happened. The begging would then come after that.

Once a man raises his hand to hit you, he is going to do it over and again. However, because it was my second attempt (at marriage), I was ready to make it work, even with all the violence. I was there hoping and praying. I just wanted a happy home.

“The incident that broke the camel’s back was the one where I almost died. The beating was horrible. People often say actresses don’t want to remain married. Who told them that? (You think) being a celebrity doesn’t make me human? Does (being a celebrity) mean I don’t want to have a happy home?

They say actresses are promiscuous but promiscuity is not (the exclusive preserve of) any profession. When mine (break-up) happened, it wasn’t easy because I am a celebrity. I read a lot of things online. Some people even said I made it up. But, nobody can dictate to me how to live my life.”

 

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My wife cheated on me for 10 years.

A man found out his wife had been cheating for past 10 years. He took to Facebook to get things of his chest, and his perspective on the entire ordeal is a must-read for everyone.

“Hi, My name is Joseph. I’ve been lurking for a while, but I’ve finally made an account to post this. I need to get my life off my chest. About me. I’m a 46 year old banker and I have been living my whole life the opposite of how I wanted. All my dreams, my passion, gone. In a steady 9-7 job. 6 days a week. For 26 years. I repeatedly chose the safe path for everything, which eventually changed who I was.

Today I found out my wife has been cheating on me for the past 10 years. My son feels nothing for me. I realized I missed my father’s funeral FOR NOTHING. I had been dating my wife for four years by then. Young love. She loved my spontaneity, my energy, my ability to make people laugh and feel loved.

Now, we get to where it all went wrong. My biggest regrets. I was 20. I was the only child. I needed to be stable. I needed to take that graduate job, which would dictate my whole life. To devote my entire life in a 9-7 job. What was I thinking? How could I live, when the job was my life? After coming home, I would eat dinner, prepare my work for the following day, and sleep at 10 pm, to wake up at 6 am the following day. God, I can’t remember the last time I’ve made love to my wife.

Yesterday, my wife admitted to cheating on me for the last 10 years. 10 years. That seems like a long time, but I can’t comprehend it. It doesn’t even hurt. She says it’s because I’ve changed. I’m not the person I was. What have I been doing in the last 10 years? Outside of work, I really can’t say anything. Not being a proper husband. Not being ME. Who am I? What happened to me? I didn’t even ask for a divorce, or yell at her, or cry. I felt NOTHING.

Now I can feel a tear as I write this. But not because my wife has been cheating on me, but because I am now realizing I have been dying inside. What happened to that fun-loving, risk-taking, energetic person that was me, hungering to change the world? I remember being asked on a date by the most popular girl in the school, but declining her for my now-wife. God, I was really popular with the girls in high school. In university too. But I stayed loyal. I didn’t explore.

Now i regret doing nothing with my energy when I had it. My passions. My youth. I regret letting my job take over my life. I regret being an awful husband, a money-making machine, not being emotionally there for my son. Being a damn emotionless wallet.

If you’re reading this, and you have a whole life ahead of you, please. Don’t procrastinate. Don’t leave your dreams for later. Please, do something with your life while you are young. DO NOT settle down at 20. DO NOT forget your friends, your family. Yourself. Do NOT waste your life.

My husband R@pes me,wish I never got married-lady cries out.

My husband r@pes me, I wish I never got married

My marriage is a year and my husband doesn’t give me breathing space , I went to watch a movie with a friend from university and I came home late , he was waiting for me outside , and he started hitting me and he r@ped me, he was shouting at me collected my car keys , I was crying so bad.

The next morning he told me I should serve him his food n@ked and I should stand and wait for him to finish it I just sighed and walked away , he pursued me into the room and he told me I should not get him angry.

I was standing there and was crying , he now locked me inside and went to work , he came back and started begging me that he’s sorry.

It’s not the first time , He will come back he doesn’t even care he will just come and tell me go and lie down , and if I don’t agree he will take me there , he’s the only person I’ve slept with.

I wish I even had s3x with him before we got married I would have known he’s like that , I was there forming v!rgin, I wish I never got married. I can’t stand him . Snoring in my ears.

Ladies if you are the one can you still continue the relationship?

My Attackers must be Arrested-goodluck Jonathan.

Nigeria’s former President, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan has called for the arrest and prosecution of gunmen who attacked his home in Otuoke, Bayelsa, South South Nigeria.

Jonathan also thanked Nigerians for the continuing show of solidarity and sympathy following the Christmas eve attack by unknown gunmen in his country home in Otuoke, Bayelsa State.

The former President who stated this while conducting sympathisers round the scene of the attack on Friday also commended the Nigerian military for their gallantry in repelling the attack by engaging the assailants in a fierce gun duel that unfortunately claimed the life of a soldier.

Jonathan noted that since the assailants attacked his marine security post on December 24, 2019 many Nigerians of different social status, including President Muhammadu Buhari, state Governors and political party leaders as well as foreigners had either visited him or called to express their heartfelt sympathy over the unfortunate attack in his house.

The former President also reiterated his call on the concerned security authorities to expose and bring the criminals to book as a means of ensuring that such dare-devil criminality did not happen again in his community or any other place in the country.

My father fingered me every morning for five solid years-lady shared painful story

Well, we are very astonished after hearing the story of a lady who had to endure five solid years of pain and torture.

The lady who was identified as Ama during a recent interview recounted how her father fingered her every morning for five years.

The lady who is now 25 years said her father had been fingering her every morning at 5 am for 5 years now.

Narrating how it started, she said that this started happening after her mother left the country for some time but the act still continues although her mother is back adding that her father has never had sex with her but always fingered her every morning at 5 am.

“My father has been fingering me for the past five years now…this happened when my mother left the country…he forced me the first time…although my Mom is back home my father still continues the act. One surprising thing is that my father come to my room every morning at 5 am to finger me…I want to tell my mother but I’m afraid and ashamed of myself, I don’t really know what to do and it has been happening for the past 5 years and their only child,” she narrated.

 

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